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It is really a fact that many people are suffering from a fatal disease. Needless to say the vast majority of individuals immediately think on the typically encountered ailments like cancer, HIV AIDS, diabetes, influenza and all of the several travesties which are riddling our society. But this condition is a mind-deadening thought condition, chances are you’ll have heard of it. It is called excusitis. Each and every failure you know has this condition in its advanced form and I’m guessing that even you might have suffered from at the very least a severe bout of "24 hour excusitis". Why is this fatal, you ask, and I reply that it may spiral one down into a spirit of avoidance that kills you. You might not in reality be placed in a grave yet, but how some people are walking around already dead?! Their body just does not know it yet, but they are void of hope, enthusiasm, joy, ambition, success and all the .ponents that make life worth living. In fact every one of the same excuses made by any mediocre or failing person could even be made by the successful individual…. but they aren’t. Indeed, the winning examples are also busy, also have family problems, disasters and crises from time to time hit their lives, quite a few have actual physical disabilities or true illnesses they’re handling and treating, they tire, have obstacles that have to be over.e, had no money growing up, didn’t have the benefit of the very best schools. Winston Churchill was in a prisoner of war camp at one stage, President Roosevelt could have hidden behind his lifeless legs and being wheelchair bound, Richard Branson could have used failed enterprises and deals that bankrupted him as an alibi. Lance Armstrong regardless of current discoveries of unethical behaviour, could have hidden behind his cancer. I necessarily mean, let’s be truthful, could you have won the Tour de France 7 times even with all the performance enhancing substances? In a number of instances when individuals discover that they are not performing as they had anticipated or not attaining the good results which might be expected, they begin to look for an alibi that would help them to save face. Every time they use that excuse the disease progressively embedded in their minds right up until they really start to believe it and they start to rely on it all of the time. Have I stated that your sub-conscious mind has no decision making process. It believes everything you tell it! So if you’re continually telling people that you happen to be too sick, or too young, or very old, or very broke, well your subconscious mind is part of that dialog and it believes you. The more frequently you repeat it, the more your subconscious mind convinced it is true. We really should vaccinate ourselves against this disease of failure – excusitis. One of the frequent excuses that individuals like to make use of could possibly be categorised very easily. Firstly, health is a fabulous excuse and it will often buy you some sympathy at the same time. However, I want you to think on one particular simple fact for a moment – the perfect human body is non-existent in these modern times. Undoubtedly everybody has a thing which they could use as an excuse, and quite a few surrender in overall or in part to their maladies. In truth Dr. Schindler in his book How to Live 365 Days a Year, remarks that 75% of individuals who are sick would be well if they learn the way to manage their emotions. Choose to live till you die. To make use of a name that is in the limelight to some extent at the present-day, I think that Oscar Pistorius in his athletic career is a very good case in point of how the right perspective and no legs will beat the wrong perspective and legs any day. Try and keep your mind focussed on his athletic career please! How do we heal ourselves of health excusitis? Refuse to discuss your health. To keep bringing up your health in conversat will seriously begin to believe that you may also be suffering from a case of acute hypochondria. It bores people. Then .e to a decision to end worrying about your health. Exercise some self control. Just because you have experienced a health ailment does not mean you’ve to keep acquiring cardiograms or X-rays. Follow your treatment as prescribed by your health specialists after which have confidence in them that the job is done. Often worry can exasperate a condition more than anything at all. Next, begin to be sincerely grateful that you are as healthy as you happen to be and lastly determine that it’s better to wear out than to seize up. Life is yours to live – enjoy it and do not waste it. The next category of failure disease is IQ excusitis. Much too many people are convinced that they’re just not clever enough, nevertheless unlike health excusitis that do not bring it up in conversation. They just sense it in their core. At times they are intimidated by others in their career or area of interest but they tend to make a crucial error in two areas: 1) We vastly underestimate the power of our own brain; 2) We overestimate the other persons brainpower. The most important aspect they have totally missed: The thinking and attitudes that guide your intelligence, is much more significant than the level of intelligence itself. Teachers will usually tell you about the kid who was potentially the brightest but he was just too lazy or unmotivated or bored or intimidates to get the good results he deserved. Just enough sense to persist with some thing, anything at all, till it’s .pleted has way more value than intelligence that does not get off the couch! You can be great at absolutely anything if you have the interest as well as the enthusiasm. I heard it claimed once that if someone had read several books on any one particular subject it qualified them as an expert. I liked that kind of thinking and I do feel it true in most instances. Also modern day technology drastically levels the playing field. Einstein was once asked how many ft are in a mile? He replied "I don’t know. Why should I fill my brain with details which I can glean in moments from any standard reference guide?" Using the internet nowadays, those moments would be milliseconds. Knowledge is not power, it truly is how you use that knowledge that creates power. Use your mind to think as opposed to just use it as a warehouse for facts. But thinking may be the hardest work someone can do, which is why so few people will do it. Solve problems, think up ideas, dream, after which put it into practise. The last part is what numerous really intelligent people don’t do. If you suffer from this form of the disease there may be plenty of hope in your case as its easy to cure. Place yours and other peoples intelligence in their correct perspective. You are not as dumb as you think – remember all your past successes, plus the other guy is maybe not as bright as you want to think either. Then, keep in mind that your optimistic attitudes are a lot more important than brainpower anyway. Being capable to truly think is really a greater asset than merely retaining facts – unless you want to make a career of entering TV game shows. Next on the popularity poll, is the excuse of age. Too old, far too young – it can .e from a variety of directions. "I’ve missed the boat". "I really don’t have credibility however as a result of being fresh out of school". Let’s cease right here and handle the those that think they’re "past it". I’m not going to use up your time attempting to convince them that they’re as young as they feel. That’s just a cliche that implies nothing to anyone. Begin by asking them when they really feel a person’s productive age .es to an end. If they are serious they will are likely to give an answer of about no less than 70 to 75 years of age if that person stays in shape. Then find out from them when they think it begins. Chances are they’ll guess at about 20 depending on studies or college. Now whatever your age, focus on how many years you have left. Anybody under 45 hasn’t even got to the half way point yet. Your attitude towards your age is the crucial element and you can also make it a blessing or perhaps a curse. When a person can beat the ailment of using age as the excuse you will gain the positive hope and feeling of young. When I studied at university there was a female of over fifty in some of my courses who went back to university and passed a degree in a entirely different career path than the one she had previously. Occasionally I wonder how I would have .pleted in my degree if I only started it now in my forties, knowing what I know and having had a full career. I’m guessing it could well be far simpler than it was for me back then. Fresh out of school at university I made a lot of mistakes, had a lot of doubts, so little discipline, and was so effortlessly intimidated. I’m positive I’d do much better now. If on the other hand, you’re feeling you could be too young. I can inform you that you simply should know a number of things. Firstly, in the event you lived on a real farm a boy became a man when he proved he could do the work of a man. I’ve heard Angus Beuchanan say "When a boy can ride a horse and shoot a gun – he is a man". You youngsters, or must I say "us" youngsters ought to understand that when we prove we’re capable of doing the job the very best, under true leadership, you’re going to get it regardless of what your age. Lastly, get accustomed to having older people doing work for you. Leaders in all fields find that they’ve a person older than themselves doing work for them but respect them. Do not be a dictator, ask their views, get their ideas, and let them feel like they are a a part of a team. As a last word on age – invest time in what you love by far the most. Life is longer than many people believe. The final form of excusitis is luck excusitis. "Practically nothing ever works for me." "You do not understand, I’m jinxed." Philosophers have always claimed, "there is a cause for everything". There isn’t a such thing as a real accident. It’s always brought on by some thing. On the roads mishaps may be attributed to mechanical failure, driver error, weather conditions, excessive speed plus a variety of other causes. All those people that superstitiously cling to their failure as them attracting bad luck want to merely work out what’s the cause. People do not succeed due to luck. Even to be in the correct place at the right time, you needed to place your self there. People never get promoted because of luck. Certainly some of the other staff members will say it had been luck but quite simply they were just far better qualified to do the job. Top executives do not choose senior positions by pulling names out of a bag. Can you picture if a huge organisation like Microsoft or Apple had to reorganise itself depending on luck. Every industry or .pany you know would totally fall apart if it based its success on chance. Gary Player, the renowned golfer once said, "It’s funny, the more I practice the luckier I get!" Get real – it’s not luck or lack thereof. Stop attempting to dream up the effortless strategy to success. It is just wishful thinking. No person who ac.plished something successful did without any work whatsoever and there are those who have had everything fall into their lap on a silver plate but they lost all of it due to the fact they were inactive with it. You could be cured of this life threatening disease. 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